Mr. Hubert: The Door Developer

My Index To Sex

Mr. Hubert: The Door Developer - Ep11

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Mr. Hubert: The Door Developer - Ep11

Lynn Ferguson

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Sephe Haven

Sep 03, 2024

Transcript

Lynn and Sephe discuss why an octopus is so tricky, the surprising differences between strippers and escorts, the need for a 'going to jail' kit, and discover how contrasting opinions on books like 'Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus' can coexist.

00:00 Introduction to My Index to Sex

01:11 Meet Mr. Hubert: The Door Developer

02:50 Champagne and Cigarettes: Life as an Escort

03:59 The Octopus Client and His Furious Wife

08:32 High Standards in Dating

14:16 The Complexities of Escorting

16:23 A Journey Through Different Types of Sex Work

17:38 The World of Strippers and Escorts

17:50 Inside the Strip Club

18:37 The Cam Girls and Online Platforms

19:07 Personal Experiences and Stereotypes

25:47 The Pretty Woman Debate

32:28 The Reality of Escorting

34:08 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

Discussion about this podcast

My Index To Sex

Each week, former escort, Sephe Haven picks out an index card from her box.

Every index card contains the handwritten details of a client she saw, or was warned to avoid.

Our host, Lynn Ferguson, gives the client a fictitious name, and then the conversation begins. Lynn asks the obvious questions we would all like to ask, and then adds her unique, and often funny, perspective on the most common and yet most secret profession.

The resulting podcast is a quirky, and utterly female perspective of this work. Each episode uncovers broad lessons on sexuality, relationships, and the quirks of men that are only shown when they think no one is looking.

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